Backlog:
Before I start this story, I feel that there is a backstory that I need to explain to my readers. I did not move to the DC area until I was in 4th grade (Spring of 1999) and was born/raised in Columbus, Ohio. When I was in second grade (1996-1997), we had a foreign exchange student come live with us from Vienna, Austria for the year. Her name was Mury and she was 15 at the time and went to Upper Arlington High School in Columbus (for my Ohio readers) until she moved back to Vienna. Her parents escaped Vietnam in 1975 to avoid the war and moved to Vienna, Austria where she was born roughly 5 years later.
Before I start this story, I feel that there is a backstory that I need to explain to my readers. I did not move to the DC area until I was in 4th grade (Spring of 1999) and was born/raised in Columbus, Ohio. When I was in second grade (1996-1997), we had a foreign exchange student come live with us from Vienna, Austria for the year. Her name was Mury and she was 15 at the time and went to Upper Arlington High School in Columbus (for my Ohio readers) until she moved back to Vienna. Her parents escaped Vietnam in 1975 to avoid the war and moved to Vienna, Austria where she was born roughly 5 years later.
Over the years, we have continued contact and she and Oliver
(then boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend and her close personal friend still to this
day) have come to visit us in DC several times over the years. As Oliver continued to come to visit (without
Mury), I started to grow a strong personal friendship with Oliver and we have
meet up in: Philadelphia, Niagara Falls (Canada side), Orlando, and even Boston
last summer.
So last summer, Oliver was saying there is a plan in place
to ask the big question to Marlene (his girlfriend of ~7years) and was
wondering if I would be able to possibly make the wedding. It was during this time when I was getting my
plan together for Europe and I said that I would very much do anything in my
power to plan around being in Vienna during his wedding and count me in. And in October (if I can remember), he asked
the question and she of course she said yes (I believe she had been waiting for
some time) and the date of the wedding was booked for Friday, July 20th.
In late Feburary and early March, I sent a random facebook
message to Melissa (Stephanie’s best friend from Boston University who I had
never meet) and asked her to go to the wedding with me. Now this may seem odd, however she was
studying abroad in Vienna at the time of the wedding and I was thinking it
would be fun to have someone to speak English with and do some damage on
Oliver’s bar tab. She said yes and we
sent facebook messages over the months leading up to the event to update each
other.
Now the other part to this story is that my parents have
also gotten to know Oliver very well (and Marlene as well on her one trip to
DC) and around my birthday, I convinced my Mom and Dad to join me in Vienna for
the wedding. So it was set, the plan was
to stay at Mury’s apartment (who was also going to the wedding) and I had very
much been looking forward to this event for some time.
I plan on being in Vienna two more times to visit them and have a free place to live. Thanks Mury/Alex/Oliver/Marlene!
I plan on being in Vienna two more times to visit them and have a free place to live. Thanks Mury/Alex/Oliver/Marlene!
Wednesday (July 18th):
Well I did talk about the train
trip on my last blog, I did not include the pictures of the Swiss Alps and
thought that you guys might enjoy (I know I did). Although it was an 8-hour train ride, it was
stunning riding through these babies, but that wasn’t the highlight of the day. When I arrived in Vienna, I was greeted by my
parents, Mury, Oliver and we all went out to dinner. During dinner, Marlene joined us and both Oliver
and Marlene asked me to read a poem called I
Carry Your Heart with Me by EE Cumings at their wedding on Friday. Of course I said yes, and although I would
never call myself a poet or a romantic, I felt honored to be a part of such a special
moment with these two great people and of course I said yes.
| View from My Train Seat of the Alps I |
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Thursday (July 19th):
On our first day in Vienna, Mury,
my parents, Mury’s sister Sri, Juno (Sri’s daughter), and myself decided to
visit the Schönbrunn Palace which was the home of the Sisi and Fernando
during the peak of the Hapsburg Empire. We
talked through the garden in front of the palace, enjoyed the views from the
breakfast room, and took an audio guide tour of the palace itself.
| Payne's at the Schöbrunn Breakfast House |
After the tour, we made our way
to the famous Hotel Sacher where we had cakes, snacks, drinks and got a break
from the heat. We then walked/ran (as it
started to rain) to Saint Stephens Cathedral which is located in the center of
downtown Vienna. We tried to wait for
the rain storm to pass inside of the Cathedral but ended up taking a taxi to
the other side of town for a traditional Viennese dinner. We ate classical Viennese food, beer, and
deserts.
| Payne's Eating Sacher Cakes |
| Dinner the Night Before the Wedding |
And as I explained in my note
above, I had never seen her before so we decided to meet the night before the
wedding to introduce ourselves. So Oliver
then picked me up, gave me a copy of the poem, and drove me to meet Melissa at
an Irish bar called Sheebeen. After
about an hour and a half, she had to study for her final (which was taking
place the following afternoon) so I handed her Mury’s address (which was only a
10 min walk from the castle where Oliver was getting married) and 20 euro to
pay for her taxi ride to Mury’s place for tommow. I had some time to kill before Oliver was planned
to pick me up so I practiced the poem but I couldn’t stop laughing on the
second line “anywhere I go you go, my dear; and whatever is done by only me is
your doing, my darling.” For those of
you who didn’t know, I didn’t know until Melissa told me that evening, the poem
was also made famous in one of the most girly chick flicks of all time In
Her Shoes. But I knew how
important it was for Marlene (and therefore Oliver, by association) so I
practiced until I got a rhythm down and was no longer laughing. I must have been a sight to see for the
random Viennese people walking by, although I did try to stop reading out loud
when people where approaching me.
And soon enough, Oliver and
Marlene were there to pick me up and dive me back to Mury’s place. I wished them well on their last night as
“single” adults, although I probably should have at least offered to go to the
strip club with Oliver. I mean, what are
friends for?
Friday (July 20th):
Well the big
day was finally here: Oliver’s wedding!
My parents, Mury and myself had a small breakfast before heading to the
grocery store and a café for lunch. We
were taking our time, enjoying each other’s presence and realize we only had 40
minutes to get ready for the wedding! My
dad and I took 5 minute showers (my dad’s was cold as the hot water heater ran
out, sorry!) and I quickly made a card for Oliver’s wedding gift. At the same time I was facebook messaging
Melissa who was having some troubles getting a taxi to take her to Mury’s
apartment. Apparently the downtown taxis
didn’t know where Mury’s address was and after three failed attempts, was
finally able to get someone who was willing to take her (it was only 15minutes
away).
| Melissa and I at the wedding |
| Oliver and Marlene |
The wedding
was just amazing. It took place at an
old castle/mansion on the outskirts of Vienna because Oliver is half Iranian
and half Viennese, traditional food from Austria and Iran were served. Although we didn’t understand most of the
ceremony, my poem went over well and is posted below (although I don’t have
enough guts to watch it).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMnThLn0eKg&feature=youtu.be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMnThLn0eKg&feature=youtu.be
| Mury, Mom, Dad, and I at the wedding |
Mury and I
returned back to her place around 4:15am when my parents were just waking up
for their flight. I wished them good
luck, skyped a bit, and immediately passed out.
After sleeping
in till 11:00am, Mury and I went to the “Oliver & Marlene Brunch” where we
had a brunch buffet (I had a few nutella crepes to say the least) and then off
to Mury’s sister’s coffee shop to say happy birthday to her sister. At the coffee shop, we just chilled and
relaxed, had some coffee, and talked to a few of Mury’s friends who were stopping
in and out. We made plans to meet up for
dinner to enjoy “one of the best schnitzels in town” and then we both went back
to Mury’s apartment for a nap.
Once we woke
up, we made our way to a restaurant called "Finkh" where Oliver, Mury's friends, Melissa, and two of Melissa's friends meet up with us. I gave Oliver a second wedding gift (4 sticks of Red Spice deodorant, his favorite) and then we were off for our first night on the town in Vienna!
Our first bar
was called “25 Hour” which was a rooftop bar on top of a hotel that had a
fantastic view of Vienna’s lighted government city center at night. Then we moved on to the international dance
party at the Vestibule and waited for Alex (Mury’s husband) to join us after
just getting back from his surfing/work trip (hes a photographer). Mury, Alex, and Melissa’s friends left for
the night (~2:30am) so we decided to move on to some sort of garden bar that
had trees going in the middle and a nice big gravel lot. It was somewhat of a disco (I think they have
to be to serve alcohol past like 3:00am) and we stayed there for like an hour
and watched the sun come up. Luckily
Melissa’s place was only a 10 minute walk so I just crashed there.
Sunday (July
22nd):
Sunday was a
very unproductive day. Mury had emailed
me which METRO/Bus route to take so I blindly made my way to her place and crashed
on the couch for about 5 hours from about 3:00pm to 8:00pm. Mury went to go pick up my parents at the
airport who had just gotten back from Berlin and returned for a nice family
meal with all of us.
Monday (July
23rd):
Monday was a
bit more eventful, we woke up around 8:00am to pack, eat breakfast, and travel
to meet Mury’s parents. I had meet them
four years ago when I came to Vienna in the summer of 2008 but my parents had
never had a chance to meet in person as they had talked several times over the
phone in 1997-1998. Mury’s mom made us some sort of sweet sponge cake while Mr. Voo told us stories about his upbringing and about how the escape the war in Vietnam in 1975.
| My Family With the Voos |
| Payne Family in Vienna's Airport |
| My Mom and I at Vienna's "Heuriger" |
Au revoir
Vienna! (we'll be back in 10 days)
Jay
| The Groom (wearing a stunning Hugo Boss suit) |
| The Beautiful Bride (after us remembering our first time meeting over skype) |